C > E
Results vs. Reasons
Everyone write that down. Then take a pen and make a big arrow from the E to the C, to illustrate that you are living at cause rather than effect.
What this means is cause is bigger and greater than effect. Most of us find that we are living at the EFFECT of others. Our bosses, friends, family, people past, present and future! We blame them or hold them responsible for our life experiences.
Once we realize that, if we ask ourselves in EVERY situation, “How am I at cause for what is occurring in my life?” there will be a tremendous mindset shift. Take a moment when you ask yourself the question and the answer will come. And the empowering feeling you feel when you realize that you can change what you are doing, basically creating your experience, and not letting yourself be at the effect of others!
So….take the next week. When a situation comes up that doesn’t feel congruent, ask yourself how you are at cause for the event. See if doing this changes how you view, react and handle the situation. See, hear and feel your desired outcome and put your thoughts and energy in that direction, taking responsibility for all the steps to get there!
Try this for a week… then another week… then another…..